
I came across an article in the New York Times by Stephanie Rosenbloom about how people are cutting back spending for the holidays this year in order to buy gifts for their kids.
The article is amazing. Here’s an example of it’s amazing grasp of the financial situation of moms in this country:
Weathering the first severe economic downturn of their adult lives, these women are discovering that a practice they once indulged without thinking about it, shopping a bit for themselves at the holidays, has to give way to their children’s wish lists.
What? They have to change their spending habits to have money for their kids? Say it ain’t so!
“I want her to be able to look back,” Ms. Hunt declared, “and say, ‘Even though they were tough times, my mom was still able to give me stuff.’ ”
Boy I know if my mom never bought me “stuff” I wouldn’t be driving up 200 miles tomorrow to see her, eat side dishes and chit chat about my latest blog posts. Because even in tough times, getting stuff from your mom is more important than having her love, support and guidance.
Don’t think I don’t remember being a kid at Christmas and the joy of opening up the My Little Pony lunch box I had been unsubtle in hinting about all year. I know part of that magic of Christmas is the presents, especially when you are young, but don’t you think we’re going a bit too far, when it’s news that a mom has to “sacrifice” for her kids by not buying the latest pair of designer jeans? Is that sacrifice?
The comments on this story are worth the read. To quote from Lost in the US, Random Lake, WI,
Shop for myself? What a laugh! This is not “sacrifice”. This is just being a parent. Next time you want to do an article on parental sacrifice, find someone who actually falls into that category. Like one of those parents who are working three jobs to keep a roof over her/his kids’ heads. Not buying dumb designer jeans is not sacrifice. By the way, that is way too many toys in the photo. Small children just get confused and confounded when they get an orgy of “stuff” on Christmas morning.
Not to compare this financial crisis to the Great Depression, but let’s read this CNN article by 91 year-old Walter Stoiber, who looks back at the Great Depression days.
Now that puts things into perspective. He was just a kid during the Depression, they had no money, he had a full and happy childhood, and -get this- he survived!
Perhaps it wouldn’t be the worst thing if your kid looks back at this Christmas and says “they were tough times, my mom was not able to give me stuff but we managed, and being kids, we used our creativity and imagination (gasp!) and had fun anyway.”